2 cents
The key is to not listen to anyone. Maybe that cannot be afforded. So it is to hear what they have to say without feeling obliged to agree.
God gave you an ability to make decisions, make choices, discretion and a heart to override the discretion for a reason. Even if we were the experiment, perform well.
Do not listen to the crowd and get swayed from what you want for yourself.
Dream big, dream right. Do not dream for petty things. Dream huge. Dream for passion.
Now I am not a celebrity, but if someone asked me what I would tell my 20-year old self, I would say. Strive for excellence. Strive for being the best in your game. Strive with perseverance. Never give up on your dreams. Strive at building and nourishing relationships. But above all, above all, strive to be a better human being. Because if you did not strive for the other things, the last one will hold you in good stead.
the second one:
The other thing, do not get too attached to anyone. Admire them, let them inspire you. Show them love and care. But never never get attached to them. Be able to live without them. It is possible.
The lyrics to a song go like this,
When we let relationships affect us and change us as an individual, we might end up not being the same person the other fell in love with, initially.
And remember, it does not grow when only one person is watering a relationship. No matter how "right" you think you both are. It never works if you hold on tight. Let go when you have to. (At least it did not for me)
Hold your game. Be cool, stay calm and be patient. All relationships that are meant to work will work. Its a tricky arena. Do not restrict yourself to your checklist, the best people are usually just a few ticks away from that list.
That will be all the pearls for now.
God gave you an ability to make decisions, make choices, discretion and a heart to override the discretion for a reason. Even if we were the experiment, perform well.
Do not listen to the crowd and get swayed from what you want for yourself.
Dream big, dream right. Do not dream for petty things. Dream huge. Dream for passion.
Now I am not a celebrity, but if someone asked me what I would tell my 20-year old self, I would say. Strive for excellence. Strive for being the best in your game. Strive with perseverance. Never give up on your dreams. Strive at building and nourishing relationships. But above all, above all, strive to be a better human being. Because if you did not strive for the other things, the last one will hold you in good stead.
the second one:
The other thing, do not get too attached to anyone. Admire them, let them inspire you. Show them love and care. But never never get attached to them. Be able to live without them. It is possible.
The lyrics to a song go like this,
I was Red, when I met you
You were Blue,
when we touched I became Purple
and You knew.
Purple was not the color that worked for You.
And remember, it does not grow when only one person is watering a relationship. No matter how "right" you think you both are. It never works if you hold on tight. Let go when you have to. (At least it did not for me)
Hold your game. Be cool, stay calm and be patient. All relationships that are meant to work will work. Its a tricky arena. Do not restrict yourself to your checklist, the best people are usually just a few ticks away from that list.
That will be all the pearls for now.
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